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Love may be blind, but jealousy sees too much..... Unknown Love is a game that two can play and bothwin..... Eva Gabor Gravity can not be held responsible for people falling in love.... Albert Einstein Immature love says: "I love you because I need you." Mature love says: "I need you because I love you..... Erich Fromm 1900-1980 True love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked..... Erich Segal To love what you do and feel that it matters - how could anything be more fun?..... Katharine Graham Do not let too strong a light cone into your bedroom. There are in Beauty a great many things which are enhanced by being seen only in a half-light..... Ovid The best and most beautiful things cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt with the heart. --Helen Keller The heart has its reasons which reason knows nothing of. --Blaise Pascal The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost. --Gilbert K. Chesterson I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. We cannot change yesterday that is quite clear. Nor begin on tomorrow until it is here. All that is left for you and for me is to make today as sweet as can be. --From the Book of Friendship It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we should know how to be grateful for that gift. ------------------- actions of Love ------------------- Expressions of one sort or another, are necessary to the life of affections as leaves are to the life of a tree. -- Nathaniel Hawthorne The true test of a relationship is the ability to disagree and still hold hands. --Miles Gengler * Love understands, and love waits. I loved you ere I knew you; know you know, and having known you, love you better still. --Owen Meredith If thou must love me, let it be for naught; Except for love's sake only. --E.B. Browning He drew a circle that shut me out, Heritic, rebel, a thing to flout. But love and I had the wit to win; We drew a circle that took him in. --Edwin Markham For God's sake, hold thy tongue and let me love. --John Donne You gave me the key to your heart, my love, Then why did you make me knock? --Lord Byron I like not only to be loved, but also to be told I am loved. --George Eliot Never say goodbye when you still want to try. Never give up when you feel you can take it. Never say you don't love that person anymore when you can't let go. There are things you love to hear, but you would never hear it from the person from whom you would like to hear it; but, don't be deaf to hear it from the person who says it with his heart. Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because only a smile makes a dark day seem bright. A man doesn't dream about a women because he thinks her "mysterious"; he decides that she is "mysterious" to justify his dreaming about her. The love we give away is the only love we keep. --Elbert Hubbard * Love starts with a smile, develops with a kiss and ends with a tear. The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them with our own image; otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.* Falling in love is easy; growing in love must be worked at with determination as well as imagination. --Lesley Barfoot * Mawwiage......Marwiage is what bwings us togever today. --From "The Princess Bride" * Give me a thousand kisses, then a hundred, then a thousand more! --Catullus I'm not out to steal your heart, just borrow it for a very long time. Expressions of one sort or another, are necessary to the life of affections as leaves are to the life of a tree. -- Nathaniel Hawthorne The true test of a relationship is the ability to disagree and still hold hands. --Miles Gengler * Love understands, and love waits. I loved you ere I knew you; know you know, and having known you, love you better still. --Owen Meredith If thou must love me, let it be for naught; Except for love's sake only. --E.B. Browning He drew a circle that shut me out, Heritic, rebel, a thing to flout. But love and I had the wit to win; We drew a circle that took him in. --Edwin Markham For God's sake, hold thy tongue and let me love. --John Donne You gave me the key to your heart, my love, Then why did you make me knock? --Lord Byron I like not only to be loved, but also to be told I am loved. --George Eliot Never say goodbye when you still want to try. Never give up when you feel you can take it. Never say you don't love that person anymore when you can't let go. There are things you love to hear, but you would never hear it from the person from whom you would like to hear it; but, don't be deaf to hear it from the person who says it with his heart. Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because only a smile makes a dark day seem bright. A man doesn't dream about a women because he thinks her "mysterious"; he decides that she is "mysterious" to justify his dreaming about her. The love we give away is the only love we keep. --Elbert Hubbard * Love starts with a smile, develops with a kiss and ends with a tear. The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them with our own image; otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.* Falling in love is easy; growing in love must be worked at with determination as well as imagination. --Lesley Barfoot * Mawwiage......Marwiage is what bwings us togever today. --From "The Princess Bride" * Give me a thousand kisses, then a hundred, then a thousand more! --Catullus I'm not out to steal your heart, just borrow it for a very long time. ------------------ Tears of Love ------------------ Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back. Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their hearts; but, if it doesn't, be content that it grew in yours. A sad thing about life is when you meet someone that means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let go. The sweets of love are mixed with tears. --Robert Herrick * There is no colder and lonelier place on this planet then in a bed six inches away from another person who may as well be on the other side of the world. * It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is the most painful is to love someone and never finding the courage to let the person know how you feel. -------------------------- Just Between Friends -------------------------- Friends are like angels who lift us to our feet when we have trouble remembering how to fly. Each friend represents a world in us. A world not possibly born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born. -- Anaiis Nin* Friends are nations in themselves. --Emily Dickinson The only way to have a friend is to be one. -- Ralph Waldo Emerson Friends are made by many acts, but can be lost by only one. Friendship should not be thought of as something we get; it is something we give. A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you. He who loses money, loses much; He who loses a friend, loses much more; He who loses faith, loses all. It is easier to forgive an enemy than a friend. --Madame Dorothée Deluzy * Sometimes it is better to remain friendly aquaintances than to become uncommunicative, disagreeable friends. Many people will walk in and out of your life, But only true friends will leave footprints in your heart. Long ago I made up my mind to let my friends have their peculiarities. The best kind of a friend is the one you could sit on a porch swing with, never saying a word, and then walk away feeling like that was the best conversation you've had. If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you. --Winnie the Pooh True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost. -- Charles Caleb Colton A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out. Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind me, I may not lead. Walk beside me and be my friend. -- Albert Camus Strangers are just friends waiting to happen. Friends are the Bacon Bits in the salad bowl of life. Friendship is one mind in two bodies. -- Mencius Friends are God's way of taking care of us. If you should die before me, ask if you could bring a friend. -- Stone Temple Pilots I'll lean on you and you lean on me and we'll be okay. -- Dave Matthews Band If all my friends were to jump off a bridge, I wouldn't jump with them, I'd be at the bottom to catch them. Everyone hears what you say. Friends listen to what you say. Best friends listen to what you don't say. We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everywhere. -- Tim McGraw A best friend is someone who carries your dreams when you cannot carry them yourself. -------------- Cinta sejati -------------- Kenapa kita menutup mata ketika kita tidur? ketika kita menangis? ketika kita membayangkan? Ini karena hal terindah di dunia tidak terlihat. Ketika kita menemukan seseorang yang keunikannya sejalan dengan kita, kita bergabung dengannya dan jatuh ke dalam suatu keanehan serupa yang dinamakan Cinta. Ada hal-hal yang tidak ingin kita lepaskan, seseorang yang tidak ingin kita tinggalkan, tapi melepaskan bukan akhir dari dunia, melainkan awal suatu kehidupan baru, kebahagiaan ada untuk mereka yang menangis, mereka yang tersakiti, mereka yang telah dan tengah mencari, dan mereka yang telah mencoba. Karena merekalah yang bisa menghargai betapa pentingnya orang yang telah menyentuh kehidupan mereka. Cinta yang sebenarnya adalah ketika kamu menitikkan air mata dan masih peduli terhadapnya, adalah ketika dia tidak mempedulikanmu dan kamu masih menunggunya dengan setia, adalah ketika dia mulai mencintai orang lain dan kamu masih bisa tersenyum dan berkata 'aku turut berbahagia untukmu'. Apabila cinta tidak bertemu, bebaskan dirimu, biarkan hatimu kembali ke alam bebas lagi, kau mungkin menyadari, bahwa kamu menemukan cinta dan kehilangannya, tapi ketika cinta itu mati kamu tidak perlu mati bersama cinta itu. Orang yang bahagia bukanlah mereka yang selalu mendapatkan keinginannya, melainkan mereka yang tetap bangkit ketika mereka jatuh, entah bagaimana dalam perjalanan kehidupan, kamu belajar lebih banyak tentang dirimu sendiri dan menyadari bahwa penyesalan tidak seharusnya ada, cintamu akan tetap dihatinya, sebagai penghargaan abadi atas pilihan2 hidup yang telah kau buat. Teman sejati, mengerti ketika kamu berkata 'aku lupa..' Menunggu selamanya ketika kamu berkata 'tunggu sebentar'. Tetap tinggal ketika kamu berkata 'tinggalkan aku sendiri', membuka pintu meski kamu belum mengetuk dan belum berkata 'bolehkah saya masuk?' Mencintai juga bukanlah bagaimana kamu melupakan dia bila ia berbuat kesalahan, melainkan bagaimana kamu memaafkan, bukanlah bagaimana kamu mendengarkan, melainkan bagaimana kamu mengerti, bukanlah apa yang kamu lihat, melainkan apa yang kamu rasa, bukanlah kamu melepaskan, melainkan bagaimana kamu bertahan. Lebih menyakitkan menangis dalam hati dari pada menangis tersedu atau mengadu, air mata yang keluar dapat dihapus, sementara air mata yang tersembunyi menggoreskan luka dihatimu yang tidak akan pernah hilang. Sayang dalam cinta, kita sangat jarang peduli, tapi ketika cinta itu tulus, meskipun kau acuhkan, cinta tetap mulia, dan kamu seharusnya berbahagia, hatimu dapat mencintai seseorang yang kau sayang. Mungkin akan tiba saatnya dimana kamu harus berhenti mencintai seseorang, bukan karena orang itu berhenti mencintai kita melainkan karena kita menyadari bahwa orang itu akan lebih berbahagia apabila kita melepaskannya. Namun bila pun kau benar2 mencintai seseorang, jangan lepaskan dia, bila dia tak membalasmu, barangkali dia tengah ragu dan mencari, jangan percaya bahwa melepaskan berarti kamu benar2 mencintai tanpa suatu balasan, mengapa tak berjuang demi cintamu? mungkin itulah cinta sejatimu. Kadang kala, orang yang paling mencintaimu adalah orang yang tak pernah menyatakan cinta padamu, karena kau takut berpaling dan memberi jarak, dan bila ia suatu saat pergi, kau akan menyadari ia dalah cinta yang tidak kamu sadari. Maka mengapa kau tak mengungkapkan cintamu, bila kau memang mencintainya, meskipun kau tak tahu apakah cinta itu ada juga padanya? One thing that I need from U That you are watchin’ over me Only You right here for me when I feel blue I know, you love me without any doubt with strong love inside your heart I’ve never found before I want you to know, it’s true My love for you And don’t you know I’m blessed for knowing you ‘coz U ‘R just so good to me ----------------------------------------- Unseen Love..... Kenapa kita menutup mata ketika kita tidur???? ketika kita menangis???? Ketika kita membayangkan????? Ini karena hal terindah di dunia TIDAK TERLIHAT...(red: ahh yang benerrr!!!) Ketika kita menemukan seseorang yang keunikannya SEJALAN dengan kita.. kita bergabung dengannya dan jatuh ke dalam suatu keanehan serupa yang dinamakan CINTA...(red:ehem..ehem) Ada hal-hal yang tidak ingin kita lepaskan Orang-orang yang tidak ingin kita tinggalkan Tapi ingatlah melepaskan BUKAN akhir dari dunia.. melainkan awal suatu kehidupan baru.. Kebahagiaan ada untuk mereka yang menangis, mereka yang tersakiti, mereka yang telah mencari...dan mereka yang telah mencoba.. Karena MEREKALAH yang bisa menghargai betapa pentingnya orang yang telah menyentuh kehidupan mereka CINTA yang AGUNG? Adalah ketika kamu menitikkan air mata dan MASIH peduli terhadapnya.. Adalah ketika dia tidak mempedulikanmu dan kamu MASIH menunggunya dengan setia Adalah ketika dia mulai mencintai orang lain dan kamu MASIH bisa tersenyum sembari berkata;. 'Aku turut berbahagia untukmu'. Apabila cinta tidak berhasil...BEBASKAN dirimu... Biarkan hatimu kembali melebarkan sayapnya dan terbang ke alam bebas lagi .. Ingatlah...bahwa kamu mungkin menemukan cinta dan kehilangannya.. tapi.. ketika cinta itu mati..kamu TIDAK perlu mati bersamanya... Orang terkuat BUKAN mereka yang selalu menang MELAINKAN mereka yang tetap tegar ketika mereka jatuh Entah bagaimana...dalam perjalanan kehidupan, kamu belajar tentang dirimu sendiri..dan menyadari bahwa penyesalan tidak seharusnya ada. HANYALAH penghargaan abadi atas pilihan2 kehidupan yang telah kau buat. TEMAN SEJATI... mengerti ketika kamu berkata 'Aku lupa..' Menunggu selamanya ketika kamu berkata 'Tunggu sebentar' Tetap tinggal ketika kamu berkata 'Tinggalkan aku sendiri' Membuka pintu meski kamu BELUM mengetuk dan berkata 'Bolehkah saya masuk?' I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. MENCINTAI... BUKANlah bagaimana kamu melupakan..melainkan bagaimana kamu MEMAAFKAN.. BUKANlah bagaimana kamu mendengarkan..melainkan bagaimana kamu MENGERTI.. BUKANlah apa yang kamu lihat..melainkan apa yang kamu RASAKAN.. BUKANlah bagaimana kamu melepaskan..melainkan bagaimana kamu BERTAHAN.. Lebih berbahaya mencucurkan air mata dalam hati...dibandingkan menangis tersedu2.. Air mata yang keluar dapat dihapus;.sementara air mata yang tersembunyi menggoreskan luka yang tidak akan pernah hilang.. Dalam urusan cinta, kita SANGAT JARANG menang.. Tapi ketika CINTA itu TULUS, meskipun kalah;, kamu TETAP MENANG karena kamu berbahagia..dapat mencintai seseorang..LEBIH dari mencintai dirimu sendiri.. Akan tiba saatnya dimana kamu harus berhenti mencintai seseorang BUKAN karena orang itu berhenti mencintai kita MELAINKAN karena kita menyadari bahwa orang itu akan lebih berbahagia apabila kita melepaskannya. TETAPI;Apabila kamu benar2 mencintai seseorang, jangan lepaskan dia.. jangan percaya bahwa melepaskan SELALU berarti kamu benar2 mencintai;. MELAINKAN... BERJUANGLAH demi cintamu;.. Itulah CINTA SEJATI. Lebih baik menunggu orang yang kamu inginkan DARIPADA berjalan bersama orang 'yang tersedia' (Waaah...siapa nih????) Belive it or not, Kadang kala;.orang yang kamu cintai adalah orang yang PALING menyakiti hatimu;.. dan kadang kala;, teman yang menangis bersamamu adalah cinta yang tidak kamu sadari. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Sebelumnya ku kira “ matahari “ itu hanya satu, Dan hanya bulan yang berhak mendapat sifat “ kecantikan “. Hingga akhirnya aku melihat mu Untuk yang pertama kalinya Disertai senyum mu yang manis. Dan pelipis mu terangkai (indah) di atas pipi. Maka akupun berlalu, sementara hatiku dipenuhi rasa suka. Jantung ku bergetar dan air matapun bercucuran (Ketahuilah) bahwa seseorang yang mulia dapat dikenal dengan tundukan pandangannya.